Question 1 of 8
When you think about dating right now, what’s your primary motivation?
I’m lonely, I want someone to fill the gap
I feel pressure from family, friends, or culture
I desire meaningful companionship
I sense God leading me toward covenant partnership
Question 2 of 8
How well do you know your own story, your wounds, triggers, and growth areas?
I haven’t really looked at this
I’ve started, but I haven’t gone deep
I know most of them and I’m actively working on them
I’ve done deep work through Scripture, counseling, and mentors
Question 3 of 8
If someone you were drawn to told you they don’t have a relationship with Christ, what would you do?
Keep dating, maybe I can help them grow
I’d feel conflicted and not be sure
I’d pause, pray, and seek counsel
I wouldn’t pursue someone unequally yoked (2 Cor 6:14)
Question 4 of 8
How do you handle conflict in close relationships?
I avoid it, then blow up later
I react defensively first, then repair
I try to listen before I respond
I address conflict with grace, truth, and prayer
Question 5 of 8
How is your financial life right now?
I have significant debt with no plan
I’m stable but not intentional with money
I have a budget and some savings
I live within my means, save regularly, and give generously
Question 6 of 8
What role does community and accountability play in your life?
I handle things on my own
I have a few casual friends
I have people I confide in regularly
I have a mentor and small group who know my life and speak truth
Question 7 of 8
How do you walk out purity and handle temptation?
I struggle, and I avoid thinking about it
I want to honor God but I slip often
I have patterns in place, though I still struggle sometimes
I guard my heart, body, and mind, and live in purity
Question 8 of 8
What are you truly looking for in a covenant partner?
Chemistry and physical attraction
Someone who makes me happy
Shared faith, vision, and values
A kingdom partner, someone I can walk with toward Christ
