BVP Advocate Training

Complete all 8 modules before your first supervised visit

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord.”

~ Colossians 3:23

Resources, References & Required Links

START HERE, External training links and Florida/Federal references

Required External Training

Complete the following free training before or alongside the BVP modules:

Florida Statutes & References

Federal References

BVP Training Videos

Coming Soon: Video training modules are currently in development. When available, they will appear within each module below.
  • Welcome to BVP, Founder’s Story (Module 1)
  • The Bedside Introduction, Live Demonstration (Module 3)
  • How to Pray at the Bedside (Module 5)
  • Comfort Kit Walk-Through (Module 4)
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Welcome & Mission Overview

10 min • The heart behind BVP

Video: Welcome to BVP, Founder’s Story (Coming Soon)

Why BVP Exists

The Bedside Village was born from a simple but painful truth: when a loved one is hospitalized, families are often left navigating a complex, overwhelming system alone. Our founder, Micheline Nelson, experienced this firsthand when her mother was hospitalized. That experience became the catalyst for everything we do.

Our Mission

No one faces a hospital alone. As a BVP Advocate, you are the compassionate, trained presence that walks alongside patients and their families during some of life’s most vulnerable moments.

What You Are (and What You Are Not)

You ARE: A compassionate companion, a prayer partner, a comfort-kit deliverer, a listening ear, a resource connector, and a representative of Christ’s love.
You are NOT: A medical professional, a therapist, a legal advisor, or a substitute for hospital staff. Never give medical advice, diagnoses, or opinions on treatment plans.

The BVP Advocate Pledge

As a BVP Advocate, I commit to:

  • Treat every patient and family with dignity, compassion, and respect
  • Maintain strict confidentiality (HIPAA compliance)
  • Represent ECO Relationships with integrity and professionalism
  • Never impose my beliefs, offer spiritual care only when welcomed
  • Follow all facility rules, safety protocols, and BVP guidelines
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HIPAA & Confidentiality

15 min • Protecting patient privacy

What is HIPAA?

The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) is a federal law that protects patient health information. As a volunteer entering healthcare facilities, you are bound by these rules.

Protected Health Information (PHI)

PHI includes anything that could identify a patient:

  • Name, address, date of birth, phone number
  • Medical conditions, diagnoses, treatments
  • Room number, doctor’s name
  • Photos, conversations, anything overheard

The Golden Rules

NEVER:
  • Share patient information with anyone outside the care team
  • Post about visits, patients, or facilities on social media
  • Take photos or videos inside patient rooms or facilities
  • Discuss one patient’s situation with another patient or family
  • Access medical charts, records, or computer systems

What You CAN Share

You may share general, non-identifying information with ECO leadership for reporting purposes: “I visited 3 patients today at [facility name]”, but never names, diagnoses, or personal details.

Breach Consequences

HIPAA violations can result in immediate removal from the BVP program, and in serious cases, federal fines up to $50,000 per violation. This is not to scare you, it’s to protect the people you serve.

Required: Complete External HIPAA Training

Before marking this module complete, you must also complete the free official HIPAA training from the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services:

Complete HHS HIPAA Training →

Additional reference: Florida Patient’s Bill of Rights (F.S. 381.026)

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Patient Interaction & Communication

15 min • How to connect with compassion

Video: The Bedside Introduction, Live Demonstration (Coming Soon)

Before You Enter the Room

  • Check with the nursing station, ask if the patient is accepting visitors
  • Sanitize your hands (every time, no exceptions)
  • Knock gently and wait for a response before entering
  • If the patient is asleep, leave a comfort kit with a note and move on

The First 30 Seconds

Your introduction sets the tone for the entire visit:

“Hi, my name is [Name]. I’m a volunteer with the Bedside Village. We visit patients to make sure you know you’re not alone. I have a small comfort kit for you. Is it okay if I sit with you for a few minutes?”

Active Listening

  • Listen more than you talk, your presence is the gift, not your words
  • Maintain eye contact, nod, use affirming language (“I hear you”, “That must be so hard”)
  • Don’t try to fix, solve, or minimize their pain
  • Avoid “at least” statements (“At least it’s not...”), they invalidate feelings

What to Say When You Don’t Know What to Say

“I’m so sorry you’re going through this.”
“I don’t have all the answers, but I’m here.”
“Would it be okay if I prayed with you?”
“Is there anything specific you need right now?”

Ending the Visit

  • Keep visits to 10-20 minutes unless the patient wants more time
  • Leave the comfort kit and resource guide
  • If they request follow-up support, note it and report to your team lead
  • Thank them: “It was a privilege to spend time with you today.”
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Comfort Kit

10 min • Prayer card, resource guide, presence, and follow-through

Video: Comfort Kit Walk-Through (Coming Soon)

Every patient and family we visit receives the same five things. It is what the hospital cannot give, and it is what BVP exists to provide.

The Five Things

  • Prayer & Presence, time at the bedside. Unhurried, unintrusive, Christ-centered.
  • Personalized Prayer Card, a scripture card chosen for their situation and left with them.
  • Listening Ear, space for the patient or family to be heard without being rushed or fixed.
  • Resource Guide, the BVP hospital toolkit with patient rights and local resources.
  • Community Connection, follow-through from ECO after the visit ends, not a one-time drop-in.

What We Do Not Promise

  • We do not promise toiletries, blankets, gift cards, or food trays. If a church or partner provides one of those in a specific season, that is a bonus, not the baseline.
  • We do not promise medical advice or hospital advocacy beyond the resource guide.
  • We do not leave the room and never come back. Every patient gets a follow-up note from ECO.

For Family Members

Always offer the resource guide to family members separately. They are often the ones who need the most support but receive the least attention. Ask: “Is there anything you need right now?”

Follow-Through

After every visit, note the patient’s name (first name is enough), the prayer request, and whether the family asked for continued contact. Turn that in to your team lead so ECO can follow up with a card, a call, or a meal as appropriate.

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Spiritual Care & Prayer

15 min • Sharing faith with sensitivity

Video: How to Pray at the Bedside (Coming Soon)

The BVP Approach to Spiritual Care

We are a Christ-centered organization, but we serve everyone, regardless of their faith, denomination, or beliefs. Spiritual care is always offered, never imposed.

When to Offer Prayer

Always ask permission first:
“Would you be open to me saying a prayer for you?”
“Is there anything you’d like me to pray about?”

If they say no, respond with: “That’s completely okay. I’m just glad to be here with you.”

How to Pray at the Bedside

  • Keep it short (1-2 minutes), sincere, and specific to their situation
  • Pray for healing, peace, strength, and comfort, not for specific medical outcomes
  • Use gentle, inclusive language
  • If they share their faith tradition, honor it
  • You may offer to hold their hand, only if they reach first or if you ask and they agree

Handling Difficult Spiritual Questions

Patients in crisis may ask: “Why did God let this happen?” or “Where is God right now?”

Do: Acknowledge the pain. “That’s a really honest question, and I don’t have a perfect answer. But I believe God is here with you right now.”

Don’t: Give theology lectures, blame the patient, or say things like “Everything happens for a reason” or “God doesn’t give you more than you can handle.”
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Facility Types & Guidelines

10 min • Hospitals, nursing homes, hospice, and more

Hospitals

  • Always check in at the volunteer desk or nursing station
  • Wear your BVP badge visibly at all times
  • Avoid ICU, isolation rooms, and surgical areas unless specifically cleared
  • Follow all infection control protocols (masks, gowns if required)

Nursing Homes & Assisted Living

  • Many residents are lonely, even a 5-minute visit can transform their day
  • Speak clearly and slowly. Many residents have hearing difficulties.
  • Be patient with memory issues. If they repeat a story, listen as if it’s the first time.
  • Residents have federally protected rights, review the Nursing Home Bill of Rights

Hospice

Hospice visits are sacred. The patient is in end-of-life care. Your role is to bring comfort, not hope for recovery. Focus on presence, peace, and prayer. Support the family as much as the patient.

Rehabilitation Centers

  • Patients are often frustrated with their progress, encourage without minimizing
  • Never assist with physical tasks (transfers, walking, eating), that is staff’s role

VA Hospitals

  • Veterans may carry trauma, be especially sensitive to triggers
  • Thank them for their service, but don’t press for war stories
  • VA facilities have their own volunteer credentialing, follow their specific process
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Safety & Emergency Procedures

10 min • Protecting yourself and others

Personal Safety

  • Never visit alone during your first 6 months, always go with a partner or team
  • Park in well-lit areas. Walk to your car with someone if visiting after dark.
  • If a patient or family member becomes aggressive, leave the room calmly and notify staff immediately
  • Carry your phone. Your team lead’s number should be in your contacts.

Infection Control

  • Wash/sanitize hands before entering and after leaving every room
  • If you are sick (even mild cold), do NOT visit, reschedule
  • Follow all posted isolation precautions (yellow gowns, masks, gloves)
  • Do not touch wounds, IV lines, or medical equipment

Medical Emergencies

If a patient has a medical emergency during your visit:

  • Step 1: Press the nurse call button immediately
  • Step 2: Step out of the room to make space for medical staff
  • Step 3: Do NOT attempt to provide medical assistance
  • Step 4: Report the incident to your team lead

Emotional Emergencies

If a patient expresses suicidal thoughts or intent to harm themselves:

Stay calm. Stay present. Do not leave them alone. Notify the nursing staff immediately. You are not a counselor, your job is to escalate to professionals. Then report to your team lead.
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Code of Conduct & Next Steps

10 min • Your commitment and what happens next

BVP Code of Conduct

As a BVP Advocate, you agree to:

  • Maintain patient confidentiality at all times (HIPAA)
  • Dress appropriately, wear your BVP badge and t-shirt during all visits
  • Arrive on time for scheduled visits and notify your team lead if you cannot make it
  • Never accept gifts, money, or personal items from patients
  • Never solicit donations or promote any product/service during visits
  • Treat every person with dignity regardless of their background, faith, or choices
  • Report any concerns, incidents, or boundary violations to leadership immediately
  • Complete a brief visit report after each facility visit

Grounds for Removal

  • HIPAA violation of any kind
  • Proselytizing or pressuring patients about faith
  • Showing up impaired (alcohol, drugs)
  • Engaging in any form of abuse, harassment, or discrimination
  • Falsifying visit reports or background check information

What Happens Next

  1. Background check, you’ll receive an email with a secure link to complete your screening (BVP covers the cost)
  2. Orientation session, in-person or virtual meet with the BVP team lead
  3. 2 supervised visits, you’ll shadow an experienced advocate at a partner facility
  4. Certification, after completing supervised visits, you receive your BVP Certified Advocate certificate and you’re cleared to serve independently
Thank you. By completing this training, you’re taking a meaningful step toward serving people in their most vulnerable moments. You are becoming someone’s village. That matters more than you know.